April 02, 2025
The short answer is: No—you don’t have to exchange personalised or romantic vows on your wedding day, unless you want to.
As a celebrant, I often meet couples who feel uncertain about this part of the ceremony. Some love the idea of writing their own vows, while others feel shy, overwhelmed, or unsure what to say.
The truth is: what you say to each other should feel right for you.
Let’s break it down.
Every couple getting married in Australia must say a legally required sentence during the ceremony. One of the most commonly used versions is:
“I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my lawful wedded wife/husband/spouse.”
This sentence—or a legally approved variation—must be spoken aloud by both parties to make the marriage legally binding.
💬 There are a few acceptable variations of this legal vow wording, and I’ll happily go through all the options with you when we meet—so you can choose the version that feels most natural to you.
This is the only part of your vows that’s required by law. So if you're feeling nervous about public speaking or want to keep things simple, that’s absolutely okay.
Exchanging your own vows is a beautiful way to:
But it’s not something you have to do.
You can choose to:
Whatever you decide, I’ll work with you to make sure your ceremony feels authentic, comfortable, and true to your style as a couple.
There’s no rule that says you must exchange romantic or custom-written vows to be truly married. You get to decide how you want to mark this moment—whether it’s quiet and private, heartfelt and expressive, or full of laughter and personality.
If you’re feeling unsure about the vows or want to explore your options, I’d love to chat and help you craft a ceremony that feels just right for you.
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April 25, 2025
When we catch up to do your paperwork, one of the key steps is checking your ID and legal documents. It’s a simple part of the process—but super important to make sure your marriage is valid.
我们在见面填写结婚资料时,其中一个重要步骤就是核对你们的身份证明和法律文件。这一步虽然简单,但对确保婚姻的法律有效性至关重要。
April 25, 2025
April 25, 2025
Planning your wedding is such a special time—but let’s be honest, figuring out the legal stuff can feel a bit overwhelming. Don’t worry, that’s exactly what I’m here to help with.
计划婚礼是人生中非常美好的一段旅程——但说到结婚的法律程序,确实可能让人有些手忙脚乱。别担心,这正是作为婚姻注册官的我,能帮你们搞定的部分!