Writing your own wedding vows can feel both exciting and intimidating. It’s a beautiful chance to express your love in your own words—but many couples find themselves staring at a blank page, wondering, “Where do I even begin?”
As your celebrant, I’m here to guide you every step of the way—and yes, that includes your vows!
The good news is: there’s no right or wrong way to write personalised vows. What matters most is that they’re genuine, heartfelt, and true to who you are as a couple.
Vows are more than just words—they’re the promises you’re making to your partner as you begin your marriage. They’re not a performance or a speech for the guests.
🎤 Your vows are not the place to thank your parents, bridal party, or suppliers—that’s what your wedding speech at the reception is for.
💍 Your vows are private words shared publicly—directed to the person standing in front of you, not the people seated behind them.
They reflect:
Some vows are poetic and romantic. Others are simple, sweet, or even funny. The best ones are simply real and personal.
Here’s a simple structure that many couples find helpful:
💡 Tip: Aim for around 150–250 words. Spoken aloud, this is just 1–2 minutes—short enough to stay focused, long enough to make an impact.
If you’re not sure where to begin, try using these thought-starters:
Your vows don’t need to be polished or poetic—they just need to be yours. Speak from the heart, be true to your voice, and remember: you’re talking to your partner, not delivering a speech.
As your celebrant, I’ll guide you through the process and help create a moment that’s personal, relaxed, and deeply meaningful.
If you're unsure where to start or want feedback on your draft, I'm always happy to offer gentle guidance and support.
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One of the great things about getting married in Australia is how flexible it can be. You’re not limited to a courthouse or a traditional venue—you’ve got options. Lots of them!
But couples often ask: “Are there any legal limits on where we can get married?” Let’s clear that up together.
在澳大利亚结婚的一个很大优势是——选择非常灵活。你并不局限于法院或传统场地，你可以选择很多特别又有意义的地方。
那新人们常问的一个问题是：“结婚有没有场地方面的法律限制？” 我来为你解答！
Not all wedding ceremonies are created equal—some are legal, and some are symbolic. So, what’s the difference? And how do you know which one is right for you?
并不是所有婚礼都具有法律效力——有些是法律婚礼，有些则是象征性的仪式婚礼。那么它们之间到底有什么不同？你又该如何选择最适合你们的方式呢？
It’s one of the most common questions couples ask me—“Do we really need to do a rehearsal?”
The short answer is: you don’t have to, but it can make a huge difference—especially if you’re the type of person who likes to feel prepared, calm, and confident walking into your big day.
很多新人都会问我：“我们真的需要彩排吗？”
简单来说：不是必须的，但如果你希望在婚礼当天能够从容自如、心里有底，那彩排婚礼绝对是值得考虑的一项服务。
