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What Do I Need to Write for My Personalised Wedding Vows?

April 02, 2025

Writing your own wedding vows can feel both exciting and intimidating. It’s a beautiful chance to express your love in your own words—but many couples find themselves staring at a blank page, wondering, “Where do I even begin?”

 

As your celebrant, I’m here to guide you every step of the way—and yes, that includes your vows!

 

The good news is: there’s no right or wrong way to write personalised vows. What matters most is that they’re genuine, heartfelt, and true to who you are as a couple.

 


What’s the Purpose of Wedding Vows?

Vows are more than just words—they’re the promises you’re making to your partner as you begin your marriage. They’re not a performance or a speech for the guests.

 

🎤 Your vows are not the place to thank your parents, bridal party, or suppliers—that’s what your wedding speech at the reception is for.
💍 Your vows are private words shared publicly—directed to the person standing in front of you, not the people seated behind them.

They reflect:

  • Your values and intentions as life partners
  • The unique journey you’ve shared
  • Your vision for the future together

Some vows are poetic and romantic. Others are simple, sweet, or even funny. The best ones are simply real and personal.

 


What Do I Need to Include?

Here’s a simple structure that many couples find helpful:

 

  1. Start with what you love about your partner
    • What do you admire about them?
    • When did you know you wanted to spend your life with them?
  2. Reflect on your journey together
    • What meaningful moments have shaped your relationship?
    • How has your partner changed your life?
  3. Make your promises
    • These can be sincere, romantic, light-hearted, or all of the above
    • Promise to support, encourage, grow, or simply stand by them always
  4. Close with intention
    • Reaffirm your commitment with heartfelt lines like
      “I choose you today and every day,”
      “This is my vow to you,” or
      “For the rest of our lives.”

💡 Tip: Aim for around 150–250 words. Spoken aloud, this is just 1–2 minutes—short enough to stay focused, long enough to make an impact.

 


A Few Prompts to Get You Started

If you’re not sure where to begin, try using these thought-starters:

  • “I love you because…”
  • “You’ve taught me to…”
  • “I promise to always…”
  • “With you, I feel…”
  • “Today I choose you because…”

Final Thoughts

Your vows don’t need to be polished or poetic—they just need to be yours. Speak from the heart, be true to your voice, and remember: you’re talking to your partner, not delivering a speech.

 

As your celebrant, I’ll guide you through the process and help create a moment that’s personal, relaxed, and deeply meaningful.

 

If you're unsure where to start or want feedback on your draft, I'm always happy to offer gentle guidance and support.

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